Respected Sir,
With due respect,i would like to bring to your kind notice the PLIGHT OF INDIAN MEN.yes,its about the men who are suffering at the hands of the females.in this day,when all the light is being focussed on the security and safety of women from the barbarious males on spree of raping and molesting the females,no one is bothered about a very small chunk of males who are being harassed by their wives and her family.there have been instances when the girl and her family have filed a false Dowry harassment case against her husband and his family members.take for instance the case of Major K S Gill and his family.as reported in The Times Of India 2 weeks back,the dowry harassment case against him and his family members by their daughter-in-law was found out to be seemingly motivated and eventful by Honorable Additional Sessions Judge,Shri Narottam Kaushal.i know this Major personally and also know how everything has been fabricated against him and his family.this kind of cases are being filed too frequently now just to gain some or the other benefit.
i wont be taking any names but one of my very close relatives is also undergoing the same trauma.he belongs to a very reputed family in a town of north and works in the armed forces.wont be telling you the force.he was married to a female from the same town 2 years back,and it was an arranged marriage.just few days after marriage,the girl started throwing tantrums that she was married against her wishes and that she did not want to get married.after much pestering,she stopped throwing tantrums but she and her mother used to do create one or the other confusion in his family.he was most of the times on his posting as his job required it.this female and her mother took advantage of this and created all sorts of problems.later when she went with her husband to other posting,she started spreading rumors that her husband was involved with some other female,her in-laws have tortured her a lot and many more things which was not true.i know this because i have been witness to nearly all this.for past 1 month,she has been staying with her family because she doesn’t want to stay with his family moreover,the guy and his family fear for their lives as she can stoop down to any level because they have seen her past actions.now her family is threatening the guy to keep her according to their wishes and many other conditions or else they will file for dowry harassment case.the biggest surprise of all this matter is that at any point of time,neither the guy nor his family members had or have demanded dowry.his family is much well to do with his father being a government officer,he himself a reputed person and his brother and sister well settled with their jobs.the girl’s father had given a car and many other things in-spite of repeated requests that these things were not needed as they had everything.now the girl’s father is threatening o take legal action.the options left with the guy are-
1:he keeps the girl against his wishes with fear for his and his family members life
2:they go in for an out of court settlement,which could be exorbitant considering the fact that the girl and her family are very greedy
3:they go to jail.now considering the state of affairs and all the kind of law this is,they all will land in jail,and bail in this case is very difficult if not impossible.the onus lies on them to prove that they are not guilty.the girl and her family has no problem whatsoever with anything.
suppose out of pressure and force and to avoid all these court proceedings and our not so friendly police force,the guy keeps her with him and then one morning we come to know that he has been poisoned or he has committed suicide,then who is to blame for this???
All our ministers and Women Welfare Organizations talk of upliftment of women but who is going to look into this matter?our judiciary and police are pro-female then where should these harassed people go?in today’s date,all protection for women is required but who is to be blamed for all the misuse of such laws?women demand equal rights and they should have it but why this step-motherly treatment with guys when it comes to dowry or other false implications?not all dowry cases are true,not all in-laws demand dowry,not all in-laws are butchers and devils?they are also human beings then why such discrimination??
I have written to you with the hope that this matter is brought to the light of people.
I’ll be highly obliged if you could forward this letter to concerned people,people in judiciary,women welfare organizations,esp Shrimati Brinda Karat and concerned ministries.
I’ll wait for a reply
Thanking you
