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Souvik Basak - Kolkata

March 27th, 2006 by mynation

I am Senior software professional of a reputed Software company. My wife, Mrs. Mohua Basak has
lodged a complain for Physical and Mental harassment against me and my parents on 12th January,2006.
My father is an retd IRS officer (Age : 73) and my mother is an house-wife (Age : 57). We had no
demand or dowry at the time of marriage. She complained that, we are repetitively asking for her
and her widow mother’s property. She is the only child of her parents. I have a daughter of 1 year.
She complained that we had tried to abort the child and after giving birth, we have not accepted
my daughter. Most of the time she stayed with her mother at her parental house without my consent.
She stayed hardly 300 days with me out of 2 years and 2 months marriage. She engages a doctor for
her Caesar without my consent. Not only that, She gave my daughter’s name without our consent,
although the name was given by us at the time of her “First rice” ceremony. She has taken all her
ornaments after few days of our marriage and kept with her. Now she telling that, we have stolen all
her jewelries. Earlier also she had threatened us over telephone to lodge 498A case against us.

She filed another case for maintenance (Section 125). Where she told that I am drawing 30000 rs
per month and she claiming rupees 12000 toward maintenance for herself and our daughter. I have to
look after my parents and now have to fight against the 498 case.

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avinash chandra Shrivastva - Lucknow

March 26th, 2006 by mynation

16th Nov, 2002 marriage solemnised at Abhinandan Guest House,Aliganj, Lucknow- Avinash with
Rittu (Ruchita).

· After 2 months Avinash, being working at Delhi, took Ruchita alongwith himself with parents
consent. And they started living together independly.

· Ruchita concieved in feb 2003 but the foetus was deformed, hence doctors recommended abortion.
(Medical reports and ultrasound reports available of various doctors consulted.)

· 14th feb, 2003, the deformed foetus was cleaned by Dr. Sudha Nigam after bringing Ruchita back
to lucknow since Avinash was not capable of handling the situation alone at Delhi.

· Ruchita’s parents came to lucknow and requested us to take her to Agra so that her environment
changes and she recovers fast. Avinash had been continuosly visiting her during this period (about
a fortnight) giving her pocketmoney to bear her dail expenses. Ruchita returned to Delhi when she
recovered fully. Even then Avinash took her to an experience and reputed physician at Delhi
(medical prescription available).

· Since then Ruchita and Avinash had been living together in rented premises at Badarpur, Kalkaji
and Pitampura.

· 1st April 2004, Ruchita joined Rishikul Vidyapeeth, Alipur as a Dance teacher as a salary of Rs.
8,990/- with her separate salary account.(Verification may be done from school).

· April 2004, Ruchita concieved again. She continued with the school on the ground that she would
take medical leave.

· October 2004, Ruchita resigned from her services at Alipur, Delhi.

· Since my father is a neuro patient, physically and mentally handicapped, it was decided mutually
that the delivery of Ruchita shall take place at Agra so that there are no hygienic issues caused
by the ill father at lucknow and Avinash being not competent alone to take care of delivery.
(Father’s prescription of illness since last 14 years available) .

· Therefore on 12th or 14th November, 2004, Avinash took Ruchita to her place in Agra and he used
to continuosly keep in touch though phone and personal visits.

· 6th of December Ruchita gave birth to a baby boy, now named Master Kartik, at Agra in a private
nursing home. During this period, Avinash had been continuosly giving the expenses to her mother
and ruchita. Even on the date when Avinash visited nursing home rs. 5000 was given to her mother
(this withdrawal may be checked from my savings account since this amount was withdrawn from an ATM
at Agra only.)

· In the meantime, Avinash left his job at Delhi and started his own computer consultancy at a
cyber café sold to him by a business man who was not able to run it. Avinash became the owner of the
business and started the cyber café at Vikas Nagar, Lucknow.

· Ruchita returned to Lucknow and being the parental home being not sufficient to accommodate much
people and on Ruchita’s request to live independently, shifted at Jankipuram in an independent
house on rental basis.

· 3rd of October, news came from Agra that Ruchita’s mother had met with an accident and she has a
fracture in her hand. Ruchita insisted that she wants to see her mother. Despite severals requests
by Avinash and his parents, to go after celebrating the marriage anniversary on 16th november and
Kartiks’s birthday on 6th december, she said that she wants to go home only for a week to which
Avinash and his family agreed she was arranged with a reservation for Agra on 14th of October and a
a return ticket of 29th of April, 2005 (which may be verified from the railways), since she was
expected to be back by Diwali.

· 21st of October, Avinash went to Agra to see her mother.

· 29th of October, 2005, Avinash called up Ruchita and she said she was not coming and handed over
the phone to her father, after which hot discussions took place. Her father hung up the phone and
respite many efforts by Avinash to speak to Ruchita, either her mobile was switched off, or the
phone was not being picked up.

· 3rd of November after several attempts by Avinash, the phone was finally picked up but from the
other side came a stream of abuses and threats.

· 6th of November, some policeman, in a jeep with a political party flag on it, came to Avinash’s
residence and asked him to get into the jeep on gunpoint. They simply told that a case had been
registered against him by his wife.

· Avinash’s brother was picked up from the parental house in Aliganj and was stripped off with his
mobile and wallet and nobody was allowed to contact anybody, not even the advocate, same as for
Avinash, at gunpoint.

· Avinash’s mother and father were picked up from RadhaSoani Satsang house at Rae Bareilly Road
when they were returning from the Satsang. They stopped the bus from which they were coming,
announced that they have Avinash (me) in their custody and they have to surrender, else my encounter
shall be done. My parents surrendered and came into their Jeep.

· Upto now, they had Ruchita’s Bua’s son and his friend, a local Agra political goon, who had been
guiding them of everything. They stopped the jeep at railway station and they asked my handicapped
father to leave on his own by a taxi for home. Ruchita’s brother also got down to leave by train
(or bus). But he left the Jeep. When a voice was raised by Avinash’s mother asking for the arrest
warrant, they whipped out their pistols and threatened her of encounter to which Avinash got
terrified and asked his mother to get back into the Jeep.

· They reached Agra mahila thana, rakabganj, the same night at about 10 PM. They were given with
blankets to sleep on the floor in the office.

· Next day Ruchita’s family came and demanded 7 lacks and mutual divorce failing which we all
shall go to Jail. In the meantime, Avinash’s relatives also reached there and negotiated the amount to
Rs. 4 lacks , to be paid in two instalments, since we cannot efford such big amount and we need
some time to arrange it, and it was agreed. On mutual agreement, Alok, Avinash’s brother was left to
arrange for money with his relatives.

· It took 2 1/2 days for Alok to manage money and get back to Agra. For 5 days we lived in the
police custody and no GD entry was done for us. Till the time Alok came back with the money, Avinash
and his mother were constantly threatened to be sent to jail if he takes longer time.

· On 12th, the draft of Rs. 2 lacks was finally handed over to Ruchita’s parents and a mutual
compromise signed and Avinash, Alok and his Mother were set free.

· Immediately after that, Avinash was asked to go to the family court and signed on the divorce
papers, failing which again they shall have to go to Jail. Though Avinash loved Ruchita and didn’t
wanted to part, still he had to sign on the divorce papers and left for Lucknow.

· In the whole span of 3 years, Ruchita and Avinash had been living separately and independently
at Delhi and there was no dispute between them. Avinash’s Parents, his aged mother and a
handicapped father had come only twice to Delhi.Once at Kalkaji when his father succumbed to some severe
injuries and had to be admitted in AIIMS (medcal prescriptions available) and second at Pitampura
(again to show father to Rajya Vaidya for treatment (medical prescriptions available).

· During this 3 years span Ruchita had visited Lucknow only 3 times, since she was also working.

· That’s what actually happened.

Now what had been lodged in the FIR

· 16th of November, 2002 marriage of Avinash and Ruchita Solemnised.

· Immediately after 2-3 months, Avinash and his family started demanding dowry and she was
physically assaulted. (She was at Delhi at that time, and even if was at Lucknow, was she not literate to
lodge the FIR at very that time? Does she carry any medical report that she had been physically
abused?)

· She complained of indecent behaviour by brother in law, Alok (how could Alok do that when she
was in Delhi and still, why didn’t she lodge an FIR against Alok that very time when the incident
took place?)

· Then she says she left for Delhi after 8-10 days after complaining to Avinash of the problems at
Lucknow (why didn’t she even give a written complaint at the police station then only?)

· After that she writes, Avinash’s Mother and father had come to Delhi, assaulted her physically
and she being pregnant, got her back to Lucknow, and aborted the kid. (That was done forcibly, she
means that. Reports clearly say that the foeteus was deformed and would lead to a handicapped
baby, mayb not alive.)

· She write to her father on 17th april and 10th october telling him of her pains. Her father came
to Lucknow, as per her on 24th april to understand the issues. (fine, but she was sent voluntarily
by Avinash on 14th with a return reservation with a return reservation. Why the return reservation
when she was not supposed to come back?)

· 6th of december, Kartik, the son was born at a private nursing home at Agra and she stayed there
for 4 months until she recovered fully.

· 23rd of March, 2005 she claims she was again teased by Alok, her brother in law (how was that
possible when she was in Agra that time and came just back before Holi?)

· 11th October, 2005 she claims Alok tried to rape her (he had been till that married that time
and would rather sleep with his wife).

· In the meantime, she claims, her father came and gave her Rs. 25000 to arrange for Kartik’s
birthday. Where was the money spent? She was living independly.

Now, she living individually with her husband, how can claim she had been assaulted for dowry.
What evidence does she hold for it?

Since half the payment is already been given,and the second half yet to be paid at the time the
divorced is declared. Our petition for divorce had been filed on 12th of Nov, 2005 and our date for
divorce is 12th of May, 2006. Then the second half of the payment shall be made. If something can
be done that can save our lives without us being sent to jail, please help me. Else I wont be
ready because if we go to jail, my brother and my brother in law(jijaji) shall also go to jail and
they shall lose their govt. jobs. I don’t want to be responsible for it. But if something can be done
without been sent to jail, I shall be happy to join the fight against this terrorism.

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Guru Shivram

March 26th, 2006 by mynation

I am new to this forum. I live in US and a permanent resident. I
was married in 1996 in India and brought my wife to US. We have a
son who is 5 years now. My wife had extramarital affairs with two
guys in India and planned to extort money from me and fled to India
with my son and filed a 498a on my parents, brother, sister and
myself in year 2001.

I have obtained a divorce in US and custody of my son in 2002. She
did not appear for the court hearing and the divorce and child
custody was granted to me. Now she is married has a second child and
do not have any divorce from Indian court.

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Hiren R. Choksi - Surat, Gujarat

March 26th, 2006 by mynation

I am a 33 year old boy. Though, it is hard to tell my detailed tragic story, I would like to write
the same in brief.
I got married in Dec.99 with a Kolkata based girl at Surat. Just within 3 1/2 months of our
marriage, we got separated reason being her dominating nature and stubborn approach. At that time she
was pregnant. Her Law graduate Father who has been assisting in Kolkata Court, took her to Kolkata
and then after she never came back. After 1 1/2 years her father lodged false complaint u/s 498A
at Surat against myself, my aged parents, elder brother and sister in law. As this was not enough,
she filed maintenance case u/s Cr.P.C. 125 at Kolkata for herself and my daughter. Every time I
went to Kolkata to attend this case she used to take another date by producing false and filthy
ground. She is totally backed up by her Law graduater father. She is working with \”CIMA Art Gallary\”
as a registrar since last 10 years at Kolkata and earning handsome sallary of 13,000 Rs/month. She
has no brother and the only earning member of her family. Her home is running on her salary.

I filed for divorce at Surat 3 years back. She got the case transferred at Kolkata by filing
petition in The Supreme Court Of India. Neither she gives me divorce nor she comes back. I am working
with Krishak Bharati Co. Op. Ltd. as a Technician. It is not my capacity to go to Kolkata every now
and then to fight divorce suit. She even does not let me see my child. I am living my life in a
faith that some day God will do the justice with me and surely will punish her and her father. Her
mother and all other relatioves understand the situation, but it seems that these father and
daughter enjoy this.
Please help me if you can. I have got all the proofs and documents which speaks in volume about
the innocense of my family (my aged parents, elder brother and his wife and two kids) and myself.
Regards,
Hiren Choksi

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Ayan Sengupta - calcutta

March 25th, 2006 by mynation

Case is in court from 2002, Aug. Dad was jailed but got the bail soon. That prompted me
to decide not to go over there and the dates in court come and go, I am not there and it just
drags on and on. They have filed a divorce case also, but on the grounds of me beating her and stuffs,
for which we are contesting. I have given the power of attorney to my dad for that. I don’t know
whether or not to get an ex party divorce and what could be the future bearings for that. I got a
job in October, 2005 and if I go now, then I have to stay for a fairly good amount of time there
which I don’t want because I do not hold a green card so that I can come back at a later date. I
guess I had explained as much as possible in a short summary. I feel I need help because it has been
a long time since I have seen my parents and sometimes it is just terrible mental agony staying
alone all the way not seeing loved ones for years. The questions that I have is, whether or not they
can come over by some means. Will the criminal case against them allow them to come over here? We
just need to see each other as long as I don’t get a greencard and get a solid base here in the US
so that I can go over and take care of the matter which was ridiculously staged from the day one!
I do not want to lose the fruits of my hard work, not only for me, but also for my family, as they
are getting more dependent on me as each day passes. Getting to see my parents is the first
priority at this moment.
That’s all from my side. If somebosy can help

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Neeraj Kumar Agarwal - govind nagar kotdwara

March 24th, 2006 by mynation

I am a one of those un numbered victim of 498 A IPC section.misusing of this law. my in’law crash
my entire famliy.they extorted vary large amount from my side and again loddged a rit and demmand
more.

They use thier influence and remain me in police custody for four days and extorted a vary vary
vary huge money from my side.I am sorry to writing here is that police Inspector of PS also play
role to extorted money form us.

MY father give all earned money which they earn during his entire life just to overcome this legal
extortion.

I pray for concern authority if you help and like me if can,i with my all family vary thankful to
you.

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NAZISH HASSAN

March 18th, 2006 by mynation

My father in law filed a case against me mentioning mental cruelty,ill maintenance and
dowry demand.We only came to know this in the month of january2006 about this.since then we are
trying to get bail.we applied to high court patna for bail and waiting for the outcome.because court
will open after 20th march 2006.
But mean while we are suffering from mental disturbance and feeling very insecure because my
father in law is a rich person and he threatened us that he will lodge another case against us.he is
asking for 10 lakhs rupees.please we need help from our brothers who can guide me what to do and how
to cope up with this situation.

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Vijay - Chennai

March 15th, 2006 by mynation

Mr Vijay is a victim of 498a that over-protects and only protects the women. Is this
fair? Is it legally fair to harass an innocent man who did not demand any thing at all and whose only
resolution was to marry a girl was that she should hail from a decent and educated family and that
family after marriage turns out to be so cunning that they send thugs to his home at midnight,
call him home and call for the police complaining that he came over to rape his own mother-in-law and
now file a case against him for demanding “dowry”? My brother lost his dignity, his job, his
happiness, dreams about good marriage and happy family and PEACE OF MIND,just because his wife and her
parents have decided that he should abandon his widowed mother who solely brought him up and
educated him and played a major role in his life since her husband passed away when her son was 13..
Now he is been threatened and abused by his wife with the help of the one-sided law that he demanded
a huge dowry and that he should abandon his old mother and lead a nuclear family with his wife and
4 month old son. The irony is she wants to live with him by threatening him whereas he wanted to
live with her by forgiving her deeds and her parents’.

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Suman Chatterjee - Durgapur

March 14th, 2006 by mynation

This is to inform you that my parents and me were falsely implicated under Section 498a/307/406/34 of the IPC on 21st December 2005.My parents and I got anticipatory bail from District and Sessions judge on 31st January 2006.We went to surrender before the Ld ACJM judge and give thana haziras on 10th Feb 2006.My father-in-law who is a police officer gave a false General Diary that I went to his house and threatened them which is 100% false.Now in the last hearing the PP was demanding for the cancellation of bail due to this reason, though our Add-Interim bail was extended.The Investigating Officer is completely biased as my father-in-law is a police Inspector.Is a mere General Diary can result in cancellation of a bail by the Ld ACJM when Anticipatory bail is granted by the District Court?


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Partha Basu - Kolkata/Chennai

March 11th, 2006 by mynation

She filed an FIR claiming myself and my family mentally and physically torturing her. Also myself
and my parents ran away with 80,000/- Rs. gift article worth given on the reception organized
after my marriage. I have an illicit relation ship with our house maid who is staying in our house
since our childhood. I stay in Chennai, but my parents stay in Kolkata. My parents, brother and
house-maid was arrested on 23.11.05,they were taken to Mumbai and got bail after production. I was
arrested from Chennai on 30.11.05 and got bail after production in Borivili court on next day. This
police came with a Marathi FIR, being a Bengali we could not even fight initially. But the
magistrate seems to be better so we all escaped the jail. I have filed a divorce case and my wife rceived
it and presently took time to counter it. Chargesheet is not yet filed. I have started filing writ
petition against FIR in Mumbai high court. I started with our house maid since she should not come
under 498a. My mother is ill after travelling from Kolkata to Mumbai she was almost in dying
condition and in ICU in Mumbai about 2 weeks. Now she is back and slowly recovering. During my arrest (
by that time other 4 got bail), to harrass more they filed bail cancellation application against
other four, which was eventually rejected by the judge. Now it\’s in the pre-stage of filing charge
sheet. After our bail every thing is over my wife wanted to come back and stay. I told her only
way she can come back that is to withdraw this case, knowing very well it\’s not possible to
withdraw. Meantime I filed for divorce in Kolkata. After that she came to Chennai to try her reentry by
visiting office and finally after no vail by visiting the local police station. I was called there
and once I explained the Inspector about 498a and divorce case, he told her to go back to Mumbai
and not to harass me further as long as case is pending. I ssek your help and moral support to
fight this case.

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