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Joy Upadhyay - Kolkata

May 31st, 2008 by mynation

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Name: Joy Upadhyay
Comments: Hi Everybody,

This is really a great site to help 498a victims.

I am an IT Engineer working with a reputed MNC. Married with my wife on 2006. My wife left me while I was in USA - Dec 11th,2007. I came here on 29 Jan 2008. she never came back and staying with her parents. We repeatedly requested her to come back but no luck. She and her family giving us some baseless blame and threatening for FIR. Right now she is negotiating alimony with me. For me a single hour of custody will spoil my career and most importantly I don’t think my parents can take such pressure.

Please advise if there is any preventative measure can be taken.

Thanks,
Joy.

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kanwardeep singh - Mohali / punjab

May 31st, 2008 by mynation

Name: kanwardeep singh
Comments: my wife want to migrate to Canada .Iam against it ,so with the help of her parents & brothers she made false MLR and put false allegation of physical assult and dowery against me and my parents.police register FIR under section 323,324,46 IPC aganinst us .she also bring my two childrens ,11years old daughter & 7 years old son with her without telling me .she go to Moga punjab at her parents home without telling me on 20/03/2008.Her one brother is in Canada vancouer who is helping her .we appeal against FIR to SSP Mohali who on our request mark enquary to DSP city in this case whoes inquary going on.At present she is teaching in privat school in MOGA earning salary Rs3500/-.I ask to you i want my kids back ,what will we do so that my kids came in my custudy . I already fill case under section 9 in Mohali court .Please help us ,i am a only son of my parents well seteled with own house ,my parents living seperat to us since last 8 years
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kanwardeepsingh
MOhali PUNJAB
kanwardeep2008@gmail.com
kanwardeeps@rediffmail.com

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kanwardeep singh - Mohali / punjab

May 31st, 2008 by mynation

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Name: kanwardeep singh
Comments: my wife want to migrate to Canada .Iam against it ,so with the help of her parents & brothers she made false MLR and put false allegation of physical assult and dowery against me and my parents.police register FIR under section 323,324,46 IPC aganinst us .she also bring my two childrens ,11years old daughter & 7 years old son with her without telling me .she go to Moga punjab at her parents home without telling me on 20/03/2008.Her one brother is in Canada vancouer who is helping her .we appeal against FIR to SSP Mohali who on our request mark enquary to DSP city in this case whoes inquary going on.At present she is teaching in privat school in MOGA earning salary Rs3500/-.I ask to you i want my kids back ,what will we do so that my kids came in my custudy . I already fill case under section 9 in Mohali court .Please help us ,i am a only son of my parents well seteled with own house ,my parents living seperat to us since last 8 years
Regards
kanwardeepsingh
MOhali PUNJAB
kanwardeep2008@gmail.com
kanwardeeps@rediffmail.com

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Vinay Aneja - New delhi

May 31st, 2008 by mynation

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Name: vinay aneja
Comments: A case u/s 498 A and 406 /34 IPC was registered against me & my family in May 2007 in Gurgaon Court through Women Cell. Now we have procured regular bail from the court.case is fixed for Ist hearing in Sep.2008 . She has taken back dowry items.But she says neither she wants to live with me nor she is ready to give divorce.She wants to ruin our life.
I have also filed a divorce case earlier in 2005 in Tis hazari Court.delhi,which is pending till date.
I want to know that can the case of 498 A be shifted to Delhi tis hazari court (where the divorce petition is pending).and can my old aged parents and one married sister and other unmarried can they be given relief for not appearing in Court.Also suggest me a good lawyer.

Please advice me in the matter.

Thanks
Vinay aneja
9871062385

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veer pal singh - bareilly(u.p)

May 30th, 2008 by mynation

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Name: veer pal singh
Comments: i got married 11/5/2005 worked in meerut. after some time i got t.b(disses) ,my wife live with me at that time but know about my disses she call her brother and go to her home. she lived with me only 40days. 24aug.2005 my elder brother died accidentely she come with her brother and go to back second day after crimination.in the month of december 2005 i go there and say to her to come back my home she come with me and fourth day she demand to go her home and than me & my fahter go to her home to drop her.feburary 2006 i file a suit against her under sec. 9 hindu marrige act.but she not recive the notic and never come in the court.13/2/2007 judgment of the court go in my favour.court ordered her to live with me.but she never come.23/7/2006 she file a suit of 498a against me & my father mother
in shikohabad police station that ma my father,mother,brother come to her home and beaten her it was totaly false.6/8/2006 her brother and relative come to my home with police and take away me and my family member(father,mother,brother & me )to police station shikohabad.next day 7/8/2006 me and my father sent to prison my mither leave by s.o.shikohabad on temp. bell.my father live in prison 14 days and for me it was 37 days longer.after some time 15/9/2006 she file against me another suit under sec. 125crpc. for maintinance.i produced the dission of the court sec. 9 in the court firozabad. but she not intersted to come in my home.now i want to divorce from her and marrige to another girl.i am working with a life insurance co. and earn upto 10000/- pm and also i am fit & fine
she don’t want to live with me and i also don’t live with her and want to divorce.
plz give me better solution of the problem

your’s
v.p.singh
9719125046

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Mahesh - chandigarh

May 30th, 2008 by mynation

Name: Mahesh
Comments: I have recently got married on 20th April 2008. This was a arranged marriage..Everything went on well untill the marriage. I have very clearly started that "no dowery or any other demands" I am happy with every i earn. All of sudden after week we started arguing on every simple thing. My wife used to take every thing in negative way and we would end up fighting. This ways thing started becoming worse. Sexual life was never a problem. She was really satisfied.
she also had birth control pills 3 times and did not want to have a kid so early. Even i agreed with her. One day when we had argument on some simple reason. She wanted to go back home. I had dropped her back home. After which she never truned up and now the in laws through a blame to produce a medical certificate and she completely dines to the fact that she had brith pills. This drama has become really frustrating and is distrubing both me and my family. Please advise me the way out. I do have problem to produce medical certificate…but i am worried and scared that today they have asked for medical document tomorrow some simple issue they could even lodge a complaint against me and my family for dowary / physical / mental harrassment. Please advise me the way out before things get worse.

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Mahesh - chandigarh

May 30th, 2008 by mynation

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Name: Mahesh
Comments: I have recently got married on 20th April 2008. This was a arranged marriage..Everything went on well untill the marriage. I have very clearly started that “no dowery or any other demands” I am happy with every i earn. All of sudden after week we started arguing on every simple thing. My wife used to take every thing in negative way and we would end up fighting. This ways thing started becoming worse. Sexual life was never a problem. She was really satisfied.
she also had birth control pills 3 times and did not want to have a kid so early. Even i agreed with her. One day when we had argument on some simple reason. She wanted to go back home. I had dropped her back home. After which she never truned up and now the in laws through a blame to produce a medical certificate and she completely dines to the fact that she had brith pills. This drama has become really frustrating and is distrubing both me and my family. Please advise me the way out. I do have problem to produce medical certificate…but i am worried and scared that today they have asked for medical document tomorrow some simple issue they could even lodge a complaint against me and my family for dowary / physical / mental harrassment. Please advise me the way out before things get worse.

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Sunil Pattnaik - Hyderabad

May 30th, 2008 by mynation

Name: Sunil Pattnaik
Comments: Sub:-Threatening for use of 498a-or threatening to kill

Sir/Madam,

I am, Sunil Pattnaik, studying CA, married to S.Madhurima .She is a Chartered Accountant. We got married(love marriage) in 11th May 07(secretly in a temple in Chennai). After that our families approved in Aug 31st 07. After marriage she came to Hyderabad and got a job in Karvy HO.I used to come Hyderabad and after Oct I came here to stay permanently. In Dec we came to know that she is pregnant .So she went to her home town,Tirupati. During her check up on 3rd Jan 08 she came to know that she is HIV+. She informed me via phone so on the next day I came to know that I am also suffering from HIV+. Then on 12th Jan she had done abortion in Tirupati.
For abortion her uncle who is a lawyer in Tirupati told me to send an undertaking regarding hiv+ and abortion. I had done the same. On 15th Jan 08 she came to Hyderabad, not our home, and living separately. While going to her home, in Tirupati, she took all her belongings and even marriage photographs.

From 15th Jan 08 onwards she is putting following allegations and threateningâ€"

EITHER

1-She will use dowry harassment case against me and my family stating that we have taken from her 10 lacs rupees.
But it is a love marriage and we don’t have taken any gift or money from her.

2-She will file another case stating that I and my family have known the fact of HIV+. We knowingly, only for money, get the marriage done. Regarding evidence she has some blood reports which she has (she has a lot of gynic problems) so she will file a cheating case…

I don’t have any blood reports. Only I had done a blood donation in 30th June 07 for Rotary Club and ICAI in Chennai. Till now I am very healthy person.

3-She will kill my brother and brother in law. So she is sending threatening messages to all of us.

4-She is coming to our apartments and shouting that “Sunil is HIV patient”. So that she can defame to our families. Now she has informed some of our friends. It is only to make us isolated.

5-She is giving threatening calls to my parents who are very old persons. Their health condition is also not good. The reason is that we should face some financial difficulty.

OR
1-I have to agree, in writing, that —I have HIV long before and knowingly I have cheated her.

2-I have to stay separately from my near and dear. My brother or father has to give 10000/- to 15000/- per month
But my father is retired government employee and he can’t pay money. My brother is the sole earner of our family. He can’t afford that much amount.

3-She is earning nearly 30000/- which she will give to her mother. All expenses (of staying separate) have to borne by my brother.

Family background:-

Her father, uncle and aunty are in police department. Her maternal uncles (2) are Lawyers.
We are new to Hyderabad because recently my brother got the job and so our parents came to Hyderabad to stay .I am studying in Chennai. All our family expenses are borne by my brother. My sister is married and she is a school teacher. My brother in law is working in a software company. My nephew is 5yrs old.
So we are afraid to lodge a police complaint also. We have consulted with a lawyer. He is telling us to wait for some time and then he will send some notice to them. But for all of us everyday are a horror and every moment is a terrified moment.

My Address:-
202,Sambhavi Residency
Opp to More,Moti Nagar
Hyderabad-500018
Ph:-09392706668
09966401120

Now I came to know that she has some extramarital relationships with three guys whom I know. But she is telling me to show some strong evidence like in bed with some bad postures, than only she will give divorce in mutual concern. Or else stay with her and accept all her relationships.

We are helpless and we are not able to do anything.
Please HELP US.

Sunil Ku Pattnaik

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M.Choudhary - Patna , Bihar

May 30th, 2008 by mynation

Name: M.Choudhary
Comments: Preventive advice against Dowry Case (498A)

My son is working in private organisation. He is very adjustng in nature. In -laws is working. Both living together.At any cost my son can not leave his parents (us)
1.My in-laws is Jiddi and very cunning and talks differently from different people. She is demanding from my son to seperate from his parents. She is not even allowing to talk with us.
2.In-laws suffering from bordlinr personalities disorder.
3. Always abusing him with filthy words
4. She is always dominating my son.
5.She is prohibiting my son to continue in office after the actual working hours which is not possible for the Software Engineer working in pvt organisation and always doing late while going to office.
6.In-laws shouts showing her uncontrollable and aggressive behaviour which may be a borderline personalities behaviours
7. In laws thretening my son to commit sucide if her demands are not met.
8. Going to her friend's house after office hour without information
9.In laws forcing my son for cooking , cloth washing etc and always mentally abusing.
10. In laws parents never restrain her for doing wrong thing rather support all her deeds as a right.
11. In laws and her parents, brother very manupulative and frequently changing their stand and statement to confront their own words and promises.
12. In law's family handle my son with suspicion and do not have any courtesy & respect for my son.
13. In laws has already thretened us in presence of her parents that she will see within 1 month whether myson is as per her liking or not otherwise she will leave which has been supported by her parents.
14. On making a simple request for improving the things to the parents of in law, their parents thretened me to go to Polish for lodging a complain for Anti dowry case if my son goes against the wishes his daughter.
12. They have also declared my son as a Napunsak, Pagal who can not protect his daughter. pl note that my laws was 2 years at Banalore before marriage.
13. Presently my son is at rented house anticipating her behavoiour since marriage but he is having house in his name and we are fearing that one day she may capture the house and forcibily leave my son and lodge a case against us.

My daughters are married. I am in a PSU job as middle level executive and my son is software engineer and working in pvt organisation.

As a prents we are ready to scrifice for the happy life of my son and my son is compromising on daily basis and ready to compromise to the extent possible but it is not giving any positive results. In laws is partially manglik also which kept hide by her parents.
Pl advice for safeguards through mail.
Thanking you,

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M.Choudhary - Patna , Bihar

May 30th, 2008 by mynation

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Name: M.Choudhary
Comments: Preventive advice against Dowry Case (498A)

My son is working in private organisation. He is very adjustng in nature. In -laws is working. Both living together.At any cost my son can not leave his parents (us)
1.My in-laws is Jiddi and very cunning and talks differently from different people. She is demanding from my son to seperate from his parents. She is not even allowing to talk with us.
2.In-laws suffering from bordlinr personalities disorder.
3. Always abusing him with filthy words
4. She is always dominating my son.
5.She is prohibiting my son to continue in office after the actual working hours which is not possible for the Software Engineer working in pvt organisation and always doing late while going to office.
6.In-laws shouts showing her uncontrollable and aggressive behaviour which may be a borderline personalities behaviours
7. In laws thretening my son to commit sucide if her demands are not met.
8. Going to her friend’s house after office hour without information
9.In laws forcing my son for cooking , cloth washing etc and always mentally abusing.
10. In laws parents never restrain her for doing wrong thing rather support all her deeds as a right.
11. In laws and her parents, brother very manupulative and frequently changing their stand and statement to confront their own words and promises.
12. In law’s family handle my son with suspicion and do not have any courtesy & respect for my son.
13. In laws has already thretened us in presence of her parents that she will see within 1 month whether myson is as per her liking or not otherwise she will leave which has been supported by her parents.
14. On making a simple request for improving the things to the parents of in law, their parents thretened me to go to Polish for lodging a complain for Anti dowry case if my son goes against the wishes his daughter.
12. They have also declared my son as a Napunsak, Pagal who can not protect his daughter. pl note that my laws was 2 years at Banalore before marriage.
13. Presently my son is at rented house anticipating her behavoiour since marriage but he is having house in his name and we are fearing that one day she may capture the house and forcibily leave my son and lodge a case against us.

My daughters are married. I am in a PSU job as middle level executive and my son is software engineer and working in pvt organisation.

As a prents we are ready to scrifice for the happy life of my son and my son is compromising on daily basis and ready to compromise to the extent possible but it is not giving any positive results. In laws is partially manglik also which kept hide by her parents.
Pl advice for safeguards through mail.
Thanking you,

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